Calming oneself. Saturday November 17, 2018
We were on a bus and the man in front us was very loud and chatty with other passengers and was somewhat agitated.
He asked me to spell a word that he needed on a form. My partner whispered that I should not talk to him in case he got more agitated.
For a while the man just sat and sang quietly.
Several minutes later he was looking for a $2 (one pound) coin and started screaming at the driver telling him he stole his money as the money must have dropped behind the drivers seat.
The driver remained calm but the passenger was becoming louder and was swearing. I was worried he would cause an accident by annoying the bus driver.
I could not watch was happening and was worried that this man was becoming out of control.
I looked up and the man was smiling at the driver. He returned to his seat and managed to calm down and get back in control.
I was so impressed that this man who could have become very violent and maybe cause an accident on the bus, was able to practise self-control and calm down.
I think we have all been out in public and become agitated or anxious to the point we feel we are losing it, but somewhere sometimes we can stop, take stock and regain control.
I am wondering if you can share a moment where you calmed yourself down when you were losing control and what strategy you used that helped.
A Moodscope member
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